“I asked the mama at a gay bar I often go to how to overcome heartbreak. Is very experienced in both the ways of love and alcohol. ▼ For those unaware, the “mama” is usually the bartender/owner, a man who Thankfully Japanese Twitter user shared some wisdom they learned from a gay bar “mama” on how to truly break free: If only there were some way to “metaphorically” remove them…. But all of those strategies have one common flaw: your ex is still alive in the world. So then the question is, how do you get over it? Sure, you can sulk with your friends, go out for a crazy night on the town, or try to immediately replace your lost love with someone new. There’s a million different ways for it to happen, but at the end of the day, heartbreak is going to hurt no matter if it was a gentle letdown or if they suddenly moved away, changed their name, and also deleted your Pokémon save file.